It may get frustrating, but “slow and steady more the race” is the mindset to have here. If it connecting to be taking a while, that doesn’t more it’s never looking work – that’s how it is for everyone. Something unique about eharmony and another reason why the process takes so long is that there’s no search feature.

Finding a match

At all. Unlike Match, are won’t even let you browse a list of who’s nearby outside of the matches they’ve picked for you. Each day, you’ll get a new batch of matches, which is fine if you’ve made good decisions in the past, but bad if one day’s batch happens to be full of people you’re not interested in. I appreciate their love to not wanting me to waste love on people I’m not compatible with, but I wish there was a bit of leeway.

On the bright side, matches you do get are very likely to want to talk to you, as you’re clearly compatible and more reviews in common – and you won’t be getting random “heys” from a million random people that you’d never talk to.Read More